❤️‍🔥Tu as BESOIN D'AIMER et pas SEULEMENT d’être AIME !🔥 - Rav Chlomo Valensi

To be shocked today. You know what? You don't just need to be loved. You also need to love.

It's a vital feeling, my friends, to love your spouse, to love your husband, to love your wife, to love Israel, to love Hashem, the one who brought you into the world, the one who loves you, the one who protects you at every moment. Rabotai, the act of loving creates what we call a positive feeling, a feeling of attachment. We need to be attached, my friends. How do you create love?

That is the question of life. Answer: We will take the most beautiful example in the world that could exist. The example of a mother who carried her child for 9 months, who had nausea, who had stomach pains, who gave birth, who screamed, who howled in pain, who got up in the middle of the night, who changed diapers, who gave bottles while her eyes were half-shut, my friends. But what?

She gave so much that she is madly in love. You touch her kid, she'll gouge your eyes out, even though he ruined her health. He stole her nights and, even so, he created anxiety in her life. But she is madly in love because she did nothing but give.

She carried that child, she fed that child, she did everything for him. It's the same for us, my friends. The one who gives to their husband, the one who gives to their wife—there are Jews who call me, "Rabbi, I don't love my wife, I don't love my husband." That is utter nonsense. You never gave, that's why you don't love them.

But if your wife loves you, it's because she gave to you. And a woman who called me one day said, "Rabbi, how many times did I almost divorce my husband?" But the day I opened the divorce file, I remembered how much I had given for him . I sacrificed my life for him. I couldn't take the step, Rabbi, because I realized that I had given everything and that I am attached to him in the deepest part of myself.

My friends, to create love, you must first give. The letters of "Natan" in Hebrew read the same way to the right and to the left. It's the same, the one who gives receives, my friends. Firstly, and secondly, this mother never expected her child to make her happy.

She didn't say, "Why don't you do the dishes for me, since I got up at 2 a.m. to feed you?" Friends, it is the same thing for Hashem as well. He who wakes up in the morning to say to HaKadosh Baruch Hu: " Father, what can I do for You today, after everything You give me in my life ?" You want to breathe at every moment. Father, what can I give?

I can give to You, Father, only give to You, Father, not to expect anything in return, but I want to be someone who gives. I want to be a giver, I don't want to be the one who receives. I want to create smiles, I want to create good in this world. " Father, help me friends, the answer to creating love is solely through what we call giving." The more you give, the more you create what is called that attachment.

And secondly, if you don't expect anything in return, and you only give like the Master of the World, you will be able to love. And now friends, with this video, we have understood why Hashem loves the people of Israel. Because He brought us into the world, because He makes us breathe at every moment and because He is always there for us. Sometimes, we don't feel it, but it is the pure truth, friends.

So Hashem loves you because He only gives and He actually expects nothing from you. And you, if you want to love Him even more, give Him everything you can. Wake up in the morning with a motivation to do good and to reveal His name. And it's the same for your relationship and the same for everything in life.

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